The movie

I went to see "The Business of Being Born" with Jamie and (Aunt) Annie today. I had a lot to say after the movie was over, but not as much as Jamie -- who I think was ready to commit to a natural childbirth. I feel strongly that yes, birthing is a business, and yes, hospitals have an MO, but I don't think it is misplaced. Hospitals aren't promoting a delicate spa-like experience, because (in addition to existing to generally turn a profit) they are also in the business of saving lives. Everyone in the movie agreed that the best place to deal with potential catastrophes in childbirth was a hospital -- not a birthing center (or -- shudder -- your own living room). Why even take a risk by working without the aid of a hospital's vast resources?

Before I get hate mail from others promoting natural childbirth, I'm not against the concept. In fact, I was in awe of the actual childbirth scenes that I saw occurring naturally -- they seemed so raw, painful, real, and, er, natural. I was also so impressed with the midwives depicted, they really seemed so knowledgeable, skilled, calming, etc. However, I'd just prefer to go to a hospital for our birth.

I think the best solution to the quandary a future mother might face after viewing the movie is to follow these basic guidelines:

1. Find a doctor (that would be an M.D.) whom you trust and feel comfortable talking to
2. Talk to said medical professional about your interest in natural childbirth and determine what, if any, natural steps can be taken at your birth. Determine if you are a high-risk candidate and if "going natural" is even an option for you.
3. Indulge yourself in many spa visits before the actual birth and, if necessary, set up a birthing pool in your living room to maximize the experience at home. If you live in the city, this pool could be useful after the child is born -- you'll have your own indoor swimming pool.

This was a film worth seeing -- but it was a bit too sensational for my tastes.